Forgiveness has an element of condition attached to it: Petition–If we forgive ….then God will also forgive (Matthew 6: 14-15). Implication that
We should be forgiving to be forgiven… No choice-period. A guide to avoid not to block /delay our blessings as well.
It requires a lot of courage though.

Implication:The one that has been wronged is expected to be the first to act i,e. to forgive – need more strength than ever brethren–I mean —from God! Just think especially immediately after taking a decision to forgive –that’s brave !. At times you deny your normal feelings-one convinces her/himself to do what is against his will /what is normal reaction of the society & act objectively—do something-forgive.

-Not easy sometimes(understandably) but it is possible to forgive. Really this has also a liberating effect(can be therapeutic and portray unselfishness as well)—adds something to one’s character. As you have said—shows how God loves us—how to love others too.

In the process of forgiving our loved ones/or those who wronged us/or those who do not deserve our love/ or ourselves (for finding us committing the same errors again& again that made us not to forgive ourselves—remember it defeats the say—”I will not forgive myself if I can do A /B/C”) we reach out to them/to ourselves—we embrace—we love —-we act first. Christ-like!

What can I say?
Thanks for the message :it’s really encouraging
God bless.